Set Apart in the Kingdom of God: Embracing Your Divine Calling

In a world that constantly pressures us to conform, God calls His people to stand out—to be set apart. This divine separation isn’t about isolation but rather about consecration. Being set apart in the Kingdom of God means living with intentionality, pursuing holiness, and embracing the unique purpose He has placed on your life.

What Does It Mean to Be Set Apart?

To be set apart means to be distinct from the world, chosen by God for His purposes. Scripture repeatedly affirms this truth:

1 Peter 2:9 (NIV) reminds us: “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.”

Romans 12:2 (NIV) commands: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

Being set apart doesn’t mean being perfect—it means being committed. It is about allowing God to shape us according to His will, rather than the culture around us.

Living a Set-Apart Life

Pursue Holiness Holiness is not a rigid set of rules but a reflection of God's character in our daily lives. It is choosing righteousness when the world encourages compromise. Holiness begins in the heart and flows into our actions, speech, and relationships.

Embrace Your Kingdom Identity The world will try to define you, but your identity is found in Christ. Knowing who you are in Him gives you the confidence to walk boldly in your calling. You are not ordinary—you are an ambassador of Heaven (2 Corinthians 5:20).

Cultivate a Life of Obedience Obedience to God’s word sets us apart. It may not always be easy, but it always leads to blessing and favor. Abraham’s obedience set him apart as the father of faith, and Esther’s obedience positioned her to save a nation.

Stand Firm in Faith and Conviction The world may try to shake your faith, but standing firm in God’s truth is essential. Daniel refused to compromise, even in the face of a lion’s den. Likewise, we must remain unwavering in our beliefs, even when it’s unpopular.

Walk in Love and Grace Being set apart does not mean being judgmental or self-righteous. Jesus was set apart, yet He loved deeply. Our distinction should draw people to God, not push them away.

The Blessing of Being Set Apart

Walking in your calling as one set apart for the Kingdom comes with divine favor. God honors those who honor Him. When you commit to a life of consecration, you will experience:

Supernatural Provision: God provides for those who seek first His Kingdom (Matthew 6:33).

Divine Protection: Like Israel, God surrounds His chosen ones with His presence (Psalm 91).

Kingdom Impact: Your obedience will inspire and lead others to Christ.

If you ever feel alone in your journey of being set apart, remember that you are in good company. Joseph, Esther, Daniel, and even Jesus Himself were set apart for God’s glory. Your life is meant to shine as a beacon of His goodness.

Today, embrace your identity. Walk boldly in faith. And remember—you are not called to fit in. You are called to stand out!

Reflection Questions:

1.  Are there any worldly influences I need to let go of to live more fully for Christ?

2. What Scriptures encourage me to stand firm in my faith and not conform to the world?

3. How can my life inspire others to follow Christ more fully?

Cynthia Young

Certified Spiritual Care Life Coach

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The Courage to Start: Overcoming Fear and Taking the First Step

Starting something new—a business, a ministry, a book, a movement—can be daunting. Fear of failure, fear of the unknown, and even fear of success can paralyze us before we ever take the first step. However, courage isn’t the absence of fear; it’s moving forward despite it. Finding courage to take that first step for me has been a joy and a blessing and had I not taken the first step, I'm not sure where I would be today. 

The Power of a First Step

Every great achievement begins with a single step. Too often, we wait until we feel "ready," but the truth is, readiness comes through action. Stepping out in faith activates a chain reaction—momentum builds, confidence grows, and doors begin to open that we never anticipated. I remember the uncertainty and anxiety I felt when I decided to go back to school and pursue my education after leaving high school ten years prior without graduating. I was confident I would finally be getting my high school diploma but at the same time I felt some fear of taking that first step. I'm grateful to God for the courage to take the first step which was contacting the institution to inquire about enrolling in the GED program. Two months later I earned my GED and this was the beginning of many more firsts for me from enrolling in college several times and eventually earning a master's degree.  

Facing the Fear of Failure

One of the biggest obstacles to starting is the fear of failure. But failure is not the opposite of success; it is part of the journey to success. Every setback provides valuable lessons and opportunities for growth. When we shift our perspective and see failure as feedback rather than defeat, we develop resilience and perseverance. Writing my first book and starting a business that eventually became a ministry God had given me was the start to a new chapter in my life. Stepping out on faith and putting my work out into the world and not really knowing how I would be received. I didn't have a clear blueprint on how to navigate either of these processes but I had to trust God every step of the way. Taking the first step was the key component. Although we feel fear, we also have to trust and believe that God will guide us every step of the way even through the fear. 

Trusting in God’s Plan

For those of us who walk in faith, we know that courage comes from trusting in God's plan. Scripture reminds us, "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go" (Joshua 1:9). When we step out in obedience, we are not alone—God goes before us, equipping us for the journey ahead.

Practical Steps to Cultivate Courage

1. Clarify Your Why – Understanding your purpose fuels your courage. When you have a clear vision, fear has less power over you.

2. Take Small Steps – You don’t have to figure everything out at once. Start with one small, manageable step and build from there.

3. Surround Yourself with Support – Find mentors, coaches, and like-minded individuals who will encourage and challenge you.

4. Embrace Growth – View every step as an opportunity to learn and refine your vision. Growth requires stretching beyond comfort zones.

5. Pray and Move – Seek God’s guidance, but don’t let waiting for a "perfect" sign keep you stagnant. Pray, discern, and then take action.

If you’ve been hesitating to start something that’s been placed on your heart, consider this your sign to begin. The world needs what you have to offer, and the only way to see your vision come to life is to take that first step. Courage isn’t about never feeling afraid—it’s about choosing to move forward anyway.

Are you ready to begin? Your journey starts today.

Reflection Questions:

1. What is something you’ve been wanting to start but have hesitated on?

2. What fears or doubts have been holding you back?

3. What is one small, actionable step you can take today toward your goal?

Cynthia Young

Certified Life Coach Minister

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Honoring Our History: Faith, Leadership, and Legacy

Black History Month is a time of reflection, celebration, and renewed commitment to the values of justice, resilience, and faith. It is a moment to honor the countless Black leaders, activists, and visionaries who have paved the way for progress, often guided by their unwavering belief in God and the power of community. This week I had the opportunity to participate in the BLK Ink Black History local author showcase in Harvey, Louisiana at Barnes and Noble along with several other local authors. We're in a time where we see attempts are made to remove our history and act as if our valuable contributions and sacrifices to American history doesn't exist. We must be intentional and unapologetic about lifting our Black voices and making sure we continue the life and legacy of those who came before us, who are here now and those in generations to come. 

The Role of Faith in Black History

Faith has been a cornerstone of the Black experience in America. From the spirituals sung in the fields to the church-led movements of the Civil Rights era, faith has been both a refuge and a source of strength. Leaders like Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Fannie Lou Hamer, and Sojourner Truth used their faith as a catalyst for justice, reminding us that advocacy and spirituality are deeply intertwined. Today, Black faith leaders continue to stand at the forefront of social justice, embodying the call to "do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with our God" (Micah 6:8).

Black Women and the Call to Leadership

As we honor Black history, we must also uplift the voices of Black women who have shaped history yet have often been overlooked. Women such as Harriet Tubman, who trusted God’s guidance in leading others to freedom, and Shirley Chisholm, the first Black woman to run for president, remind us of the courage and tenacity required to break barriers. In our present time, women of faith and purpose continue to lead in ministry, advocacy, and leadership, empowering future generations to step boldly into their calling.

Moving Forward: A Legacy of Action

Honoring Black history is more than remembrance—it is a call to action. As people of faith, we are called to continue the work of justice, inclusion, and empowerment. This month, take time to educate yourself, support Black-led organizations, and mentor young leaders. Engage in conversations that challenge injustice, and most importantly, let your faith guide you in being a catalyst for change.

Black History Month is not just a commemoration of the past; it is a charge for the future. Let us carry forward the legacy of those who came before us by embracing leadership, faith, and advocacy. May we all find inspiration in their stories and commit ourselves to creating a world where justice, equality, and love prevail.

Reflection Questions:

1. How will you honor Black History Month this year?

Cynthia Young

Certified Life Coach Minister

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My First Stage Play Experience: Shining a Spotlight on Domestic Violence

Life has a way of leading us into unexpected opportunities that stretch and transform us. Recently, I stepped onto the stage for the very first time as part of a powerful stage play "The Day I Found Myself: A Stage Play Shining Light on Domestic Violence" aimed at raising awareness about domestic violence. As I reflect on this journey, I am filled with excitement, gratitude, and a renewed sense of purpose.

Acting wasn’t something I had considered before, but the message of the production struck a deep chord within me. Domestic violence is a pervasive issue that affects countless lives, and I knew this was a chance to use my voice and presence to advocate for change in a meaningful way.

The preparation process was an emotional and enlightening experience. From memorizing lines to embodying the character’s emotions, I found myself connecting deeply with the story being told. It wasn’t just about acting; it was about stepping into the shoes of someone whose story represents the silent struggles of so many.

Through rehearsals, I discovered the power of collaboration and vulnerability. The cast and crew became a supportive family, united by a shared commitment to shining a light on an issue that is often shrouded in silence and shame. Together, we created something beautiful and impactful—a work of art that doesn’t just entertain but educates and inspires.

On opening night, I felt a mix of nerves and excitement as I stood behind the curtain. The moment the lights came up, I realized the importance of what we were doing. Each line, gesture, and scene carried the weight of a message that needed to be heard. Seeing the audience’s reactions and hearing their feedback after the show reaffirmed the significance of this work.

Taking part in this play was more than just a personal achievement; it was a step forward in my mission to advocate for justice and healing. It reminded me that art has the power to break barriers, spark conversations, and ignite change.

As I reflect on this experience, I am filled with hope that the conversations we started on stage will ripple out into the community and beyond. Domestic violence is a complex and urgent issue, but together, we can create a world where survivors feel seen, heard, and supported.

I am so grateful for this opportunity and for everyone who came out to support the play. To those who may be facing the pain of domestic violence, I want you to know that you are not alone. There is help, and there is hope.

This journey has inspired me to continue using every platform I have to bring awareness to the issues that matter. Whether through coaching, writing, or now acting, I am committed to planting seeds of influence that lead to transformation.

Thank you for being part of this journey with me. Let’s keep the conversation going and work together to make a difference.

With Love and Purpose

Co-Stars of "The Day I Found Myself" Stage Play

Supporters of the Stage Play

Reflection Questions:

1. Have you ever stepped out of your comfort zone to advocate for a cause close to your heart? What did you learn from the experience?

2. How can art and storytelling be used to raise awareness about important social issues in your community?

Cynthia Young

Certified Life Coach Minister

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Faithful Advocacy: How Prayer and Discernment Illuminate the Path to Justice

Advocacy is often driven by a deep sense of justice and compassion. For faith-driven advocates, prayer and discernment provide a spiritual foundation that not only sustains our work but also guides our strategies and decisions. Advocacy for me is all about how we love and serve one another. As believers, we should be involved in spirit-led advocacy. As followers of Christ, our faith compels us to act when we encounter injustice, suffering, and brokenness in the world. Spirit-led advocacy is a natural extension of our calling to love God and love our neighbors. 

Here are some reasons why believers should engage in this transformative work:

We Are the Light of the World

Jesus calls us to be salt and light (Matthew 5:13-16), bringing hope and truth into dark places. Advocacy gives us the opportunity to shine this light by speaking up for the voiceless, addressing systemic injustices, and building communities that reflect God’s love and righteousness.

When guided by the Holy Spirit, our advocacy becomes a witness of God’s compassion and power to transform lives and systems.

We Follow Jesus’ Example

Jesus was the ultimate advocate, standing up for the marginalized, challenging oppressive systems, and offering hope to the brokenhearted. As His followers, we are called to continue His work, advocating for those who cannot advocate for themselves and addressing the root causes of suffering.

Spirit-led advocacy means seeking God’s direction in every action, ensuring our work is not about personal agendas but about advancing His Kingdom.

We Are Called to Pursue Justice

Scripture is clear about God’s heart for justice. Passages like Micah 6:8 (“to act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God”) and Isaiah 1:17 (“Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed”) remind us that advocacy aligns with the mission of the Kingdom.

Spirit-led advocacy ensures that our efforts are not just driven by emotion but grounded in God’s wisdom and love.

How to Get Involved in Spirit-Led Advocacy

- Pray for guidance: Begin each effort with prayer, asking God to reveal His will and direction.

- Educate yourself: Understand the issues and the people impacted, allowing compassion and truth to shape your actions.

- Act with love and humility: Advocacy is about serving others and reflecting Christ in all that we do.

Spirit-led advocacy is a powerful way for believers to live out their faith, offering hope and healing in a broken world. When we invite the Holy Spirit to guide our efforts, we honor God and embody His love for justice, mercy, and compassion.

Let’s rise to the call and let our faith shine through our advocacy. Together, we can make a difference that echoes in eternity.

Reflection Questions:

1. What specific gifts or experiences has God given me that can be used in advocacy?

2. What is one action I can take this week to engage in Spirit-led advocacy?

Cynthia Young

Certified Life Coach Minister

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